Facts
Published on Nov 10th, 2009 by Adam in Adam's Blog with 13 Comments »
Good Morming everyone,
This is Cindy and I have a few things that Jerry asked me to clear up.
1. Yes we are seperated.
2. Yes we will be getting a divorce.
Jerry however will be covering the household expenses and anything that the boys need untill Garrett is out of school in four years. The rest of the details are personnal and will not be addressed on this website.
This is a very stressfull time for all of us.
On the up side Adams number has fallen to 11,602 from 25,841 seven days ago. He is eating more each day and is up to 131 pounds.
Garrett wrestled great this weekend and we are all very proud of him..
Cindy
God never gives us anything that we can not handle
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Cindy,
Sounds like things are going great for Adam and I am sure they will continue to. He sounds like such a brave young man. As for the rest of your life, I know things are stressful, but they will get better each day, and good for you for taking charge of your prsonal life. You are a very strong woman, I am sure that is where Adam gets it from. Congrats to Garrett for his wrestling weekend. I know how exciting that is as I was a wrestling Mom also.
Take care,Donna
Cindy, I was glad to read that your husband will be covering household expenses and taking care of the boys’ needs until Garrett is out of school in four years. I can imagine that Jerry would want this known. So, it might be for the best that you two divorce but of course one still needs to meet one’s responsibilities and I see that Jerry plans to do this. It is very stressful for the family. I hope peace comes soon to all of you. Glad to read Adam’s numbers are down and that he has gained some weight. I will be thinking of your family during this Thanksgiving season. Our son will not be with us for Thanksgiving. He died on May 22, 2008. This was the one holiday he would be with us and now even that is taken away from us.
A Mother
Cindy, may God bless you and keep you close during this time. I wanted to send something to Adam for his Christmas tree, but I misplaced your address. Can you send it to me by email, if you don’t want to publish? Glad to see your Adam is gaining weight and strength, and of course I love the name Garrett- so I’m glad he’s keeping his head up and working hard too! Much love to you and yours.
Cindy and Adam, while our words fail just as people do, love and prayers never do. As a father of two wrestlers and a daughter who wanted to be one, I have nothing to say that can possible give this moment in your life justice. Just know that you both are blessing us with your willingness to share your life’s journey…the good and the bad. Know for a FACT that you are loved and have influenced countless lives for God.
Adam, thank you for honoring your mom and your God. Wrestlers all have one thing in common, they are among the most restless persons on this earth. I know because I have two who literally can’t sit still for 2 minutes. I know you would rather be on the mat or gym or anywhere else right now….but in your quiet times, reflect on Psalms 46:10: “Be still and know I am God”. I believe God wants us at our weakest and most desperate moments to just go limp and relax your spirit, and know He is your Father and always will be.
Mark (and family), Waterford, CT
Thank you Cindy for the update….great news about Adam…and your right….God knows all he has planned for us.
Dear Cindy,
I am sorry that you have this added stress. The end of a marriage is extremely difficult, regardless of the circumstances.
May you and Jerry find your way to a happy and calm relationship, even if it is apart, and may your lives get easier and brighter.
Obviously, Adam and Garrett have parents who are loving, caring and supportive of them.
and BEST OF ALL, – Adam’s numbers are going in the right direction!!
Hugs,
Sheila
Hi Cindy,
It was good of you clear some things up, but you didn’t have to for us! I know how you feel.
Very happy to hear of Adams numbers and weight gain.
Keep on keeping on Cindy!
Many Blessings,
Wrestling Ma
I just wanted to say congratulations. I was so thrilled to see that your marker’s have continued to drop. I pray for you and your family every night. You have so much strength and courage, and I pray you conquer this cancer once and for all. To your mom, I pray for you as well. It is so hard to sit an watch my own husband go through his chemo / stem cell transplants, I can’t imagine the heartache you must feel to see your son struggle through this day after day. It is so hard to keep a smiling, positive face, I don’t know how you do it. Adam is lucky to have such a wonderful, caring, unselfish mother. God Bless You Both!!!!
I am so glad Adam is better! Everyone who reads this is praying for all of you.
KP
Hi Cindy,
I’m very sorry hearing about you and jerry. I have been keeping the family in prayer and now have more reason to continue. You must be a very strong woman and mom, bc what u say it true. God never gives us more than we can handle. I’ve said that very same quote many times in my life, and found myself saying “Well, just how much more do u think I can take?”.
I’m glad to hear the good news on Adam and pray that God continues to show miracles through him. Good to hear about Garret too! Just wanted to let u know that I’m hear, and I care. All I know to do is to pray, and I continue to do that.
Lord, when words fail me, 4 words always come to mind~ Lord, your will be done. amen.
sending love, hugs, and kisses!
IT WILL GET BETTER…
No, no You never let go,
Through the calm and through the storm,
No, no never let go.
Through every high and every low,
No no, You never let go, never let go of me.
Ps 23
What kind of man leaves his wife when his son is battling cancer? I can’t imagine doing that to people I love. The guy must not have a heart or a set of balls. Sorry Adam. It had to be said.