RIP Adam Frey, Jan 6, 1986 – Dec 26, 2009.
About the Adam Frey Foundation:
The Adam Frey Foundation is a non-profit organization formed by Adam Frey to give comfort to and provide enjoyment for those receiving treatment for cancer.
During an aggressive bout of chemo, about a month before Adam passed away, he wrote in his blog, “Hopefully life outside of chemo and the sickness will be comfortable.” The purpose of The Adam Frey Foundation is to make this hope come true for people fighting cancer.
When Adam was undergoing cancer treatments, he would visit with the other patients in the hospital. It did not matter to him if someone was nine or 90; he was going to engage them in conversation, and it was these conversations that enabled him to see a real need.
He started with bringing a hot lunch every third Wednesday to the Hillman Treatment Center in Pittsburgh. Then when Adam started going to Sloan Kettering in New York for treatments, he asked, “Mom, can you make dinner for the whole floor. Mom, when you order the groceries, get this type of Gatorade for this person and this cookie for that person.” He even planned a turkey dinner one day and invited people as he walked down the hall. Adam had the means to help, and he did, no matter what he had to do. It was at this time that he decided that when he left New York, he was going to start a foundation that would help people get the food they needed, gas monies to get back and forth from the doctor’s, air fare, and other necessities needed for life with cancer. His mindset is that millions of dollars are allocated to the research of cancer, but very little goes into funds that can be used for something other than needles and pins; something that can put a smile on their face.
As of today, The Adam Frey Foundation is the leading contributor to the Hillman patient assistant program where gifts cards are provided in $100 amounts to be used for food, gas, or prescriptions. We have also organized an event for Easter where the Easter Bunny will be providing treats to the children, and gift cards to the parents at the Children’s Hospital Cancer Ward in Pittsburgh. Also, we are in the process of speaking with The Hope Lodge, and Sloan Kettering, both in New York City.
As The Foundation grows, the amount of those who we can help will also grow. Adam was very passionate about this work, and it is through this Foundation that not only his love of life and compassion for people can continue to spread, but his fighting spirit will also live on.
Thank you for your time and thoughtfulness in considering the Adam Frey Foundation.
Cynthia L. Frey
President
The Adam Frey Foundation
Adam’s Bio:
Hello, my name is Adam Frey and I am a wrestler at Cornell University.
On the Tuesday after Easter (March 25, 2008), I decided to get up a little earlier to make a nice stop at McDonald’s and get some food before heading off to a full day of classes. On my way to class on a winding part of the road that I drive on every day, I saw a car coming straight at me. I veered right to miss it and then swerved left, causing my car to fishtail on gravel, roll and hit a tree at about 55 MPH.
After finding myself in the bed of my vehicle and still in the front seat, I started to pray. My whole body was numb except for an incredible pain in my neck. After realizing I was not paralyzed, I exited the car and called my roommate to come pick me up. My stuff was scattered as far as 50 feet out the back of the car from the roll and my car is totaled.
Upon arriving to the hospital, I waited for what seemed like forever to finally get seen. Before undergoing a routine CAT scan to check for internal bleeding and head trauma, the doctor told me that I must be one tough SOB to walk away from something like that and I should be dead. As soon as I felt everything would be over and I would just have a story to tell and maybe a job to pick up to get another car, I received my results.
The head and neck were fine except for whiplash, but another problem loomed. Here I was informed of three tumors on my lung, liver and between my kidneys. At the age of 22, and with never smoking, chewing, doing drugs, and being as healthy as anyone in wrestling shape, I have cancer.
It is obviously a hard pill to swallow, but as my coach always tells me, “It is what it is.” There is no hiding, no running, nothing. I have to do something that I have done all my life: fight.
With the help of the big man upstairs and my family and friends, I feel like I have the best support group out there. Those in the wrestling community have really come through and everyone has blessed me with their love and support even as this task looms. I hope to one day wrestle again, I hope to beat this disease, and I hope that you all can be a part of this piece of my life. I can promise to never give up and to be as tough as I can be.
With that said, thank you for reading my story and I hope to keep you guys updated with my blog and my treatment. I will keep all of you in my prayers and let us all hope for the best.
God Bless,
Adam Frey
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Adam
We will be praying for you here down at St. Benedict’s.
Stay strong!
Coach DiPiano
Adam, you are strong, and you will get through this. Keep your head up and remember that you always have God with you! =)
Adam
Its really sad to hear that you have cancer, but just like the way you wrestle with great intensity and grit i’m sure you will beat this disease with the same type of determination. Good luck with your fight and we will all be praying for you.
god’s speed
brando
Adam,
Sorry to hear this. Have watched your wrestling in Lehigh Valley since yours days at Blair. Your story reminds me of a fellow Lehigh graduate, Frank Veresics, who also was a wrestler. He was involved in a motorcylce accident, but in the aftercare and CAT/MRI was diagnosed with a brain tumor. We stood by him through his whole ordeal.
May you have close friends and family that are on this journey with you and that you be healthy.
EngineerLehigh
Adam,
I have watched you wrestle and followed your career. You are as tough as they come. Be strong, stay positive and have faith, you will overcome this obstacle. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Tom Foster
Minnesota
Adam,
I went through what you did. Never did anything bad and then voila…CANCER. I have been in remission for nearly 3 years now and credit wrestling for a lot of it. The website I have included above is for my old cancer update site. Feel free to check it out and also feel free to contact me if you have any questions.
Best of luck and take care.
Yours in wrestling,
Swayz
The Iowa wrestling family is praying for you. God bless and stay strong. Your faith, family and friends will pull you through this. Take care.
Adam,
Praying for you man. The good Lord never gives you more than you can handle.
take care
Just a Cornell wrestling fan who knows that you will give this situation all you got; just like always. Prayers are headed your way, every day.
Keep that positive attitude and I know I’ll see you on the mat again one day.
Adam,
I don’t really know u, but I watched you wrestle throughout the Lehigh Valley while you were at Blair. No doubt that every wrestler has that mental and physical toughness, you obviously do, I am sure you will overcome this…..”one match at a time”. Keep that self-confidence and you will continue to succeed.
I speak for all of District 11 (PA), our thoughts and prayers are with you.
GOOD LUCK
Adam -
God bless. Keep fighting and attack this just as you do your opponents!!!
Adam,
Have never had the pleasure of meeting you, but know what an awesome wrestler you are! So sorry to hear about your bad news, but know that you will fight through it. All your years of wrestling have helped to prepare you for your most intense match of your life. That positive attitude and training that has gotten you where you are today will help you win this match as well. You have the support and prayers of the Illinois wrestling community behind you. We will keep you in our prayers every day!!
Sorry to hear about the tumors Adam. God bless you and stay strong.
Adam:
I had the pleasure of coaching Clint Wattenberg in H.S and as a result I have become a huge Cornell fan the last several years. I want you to know I love your attacking style on the mat and am all the way with you in your upcoming battle. You can and will beat this opponent as well! Big prayers coming from Northern California and remember to stay strong! MUCH LOVE AND SUPPORT!
Adam,
I have read your story and can only say you are a very tough individual. For someone at your age to share this story with the entire world, you are a terrific person. I will share your story with as many people as I can, and our school and church will have a prayer for you. You will remain in our thoughts and prayers and we are looking forward to a wonderful end to this story. The end where you tell everyone how you fought the cancer, and beat it.
Be Tough & Stay Positive,
Debbie
Adam,
You and your family are in our prayers. We all know how tough you are, so stay strong and continue to have a positive attitude. Everyone here in New Jersey is praying for you.
God Bless You,
The Perrelli’s
Adam,
I am very sorry to hear about your situation. We’ll be awaiting the results from the biopsy and hoping for the best.
My boys both wrestle in college and in know that Aarom Sweazy guy who wrote above…we will be praying for you to get great reports on your tests and a quick treatment and recovery. I will keep checking back to see how you do. You have the right mindset, you know the Lord, and you are a great wrestler. You are already equiped for battle now go to it.
Yours in Wrestling, the greatest sport on earth.
Ms. Jenni
Adam, you will be in the prayers of my family.
Keep the faith and the fight…
Adam:
So sorry to hear this bad news..you dont know me I’m just a big fan of wrestling..know that you will win this battle..will keep you in my prayers and be checking back to watch your progress..give it all like you did on the mat ..
Jack
Adam,
Know that we all love you and are praying for you. We know you are tough! Give our love to your Mom and Dad and Garrett!
The Bogarts!!
Dear Adam,
Sorry to hear of your situation, but glad you are stout of heart! Your coach is right, by the way; it is what it is. Many of us have had things happen to us that we didn’t foresee. It’s not about what happens, it’s about our response to what happens. If you trust The One who is deserving your trust, you will be taken of. Blessings to you.
John Henning
South Burlington, VT
Hi Adam,
You do not know me but I imagine you know my father David Wechsler. My dad just let because he is a big supporter of you and the Cornell program. And there is one more detail, he has been where your family is and is about to go.
In more ways than I can describe I know what you are going through and all the stuff you have to do, let alone process. When I was 30, despite doing all the right things just like yourself, I was diagnosed with a very rare form of cartilage and bone cancer. Initially I was given a 10-15% chance of survival. It has been almost 8 cancer-free years since that fateful day. If there is anything I can do, and I mean anything, just forget about hesitating and ask – the risk to reward profile is pretty good.
This may sound absolutely nuts as you are about to go through an incredible war, but life for you is about to get a lot sweeter.
Thank you for sharing your story.
Raf
on behalf of hunter college wrestling team we would like to send our best wishes out to you and your family. god bless you in this battle.
Hi Adam,
You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
Take care and God Bless,
The Kylers
Adam,
My families prayers are with you and your family. Take care and God Bless, The Maroneys (Fans of Great Wrestling)
Adam,
You are so in my thoughts and prayers. You are a fighter, you are determined, you are strong!!!
If you need anything please let me know …
Adam along with Mom, Dad and Garrett feel my hugs for all of you.
“MaMa C”
Adam,
You are truly a strong person, faced with trials that no person should face. I will keep you in my prayers. I pray that you will be able to wrestle again, regardless I know that you are in God’s hands. Here is a bible verse you can look up if you don’t already know it:
Philippians 4:13
Anthony Jorge
Adam,
Our prayers are with you and your family. Your attitude about this is remarkable. Not knowing you personally and reading your story, I believe you to be a very strong young man. I have sons around your age and your story really hits home. I just want you to know that I will be praying for your recovery and that I will read good news. And as for the wrestling community, what a great family. We, in Maryland, personally felt it. What a wonderful group of people. Our love and prayers are there for you and your family and your full recovery.
Old Mill Mom
Hey bro, damn i’m sorry to hear about this. Your a great guy and you know that God acts in mysterious way. I know you’ll fight through this and still be able to accomplish anything you want to. With your strive and determination, and okay your stubborn attitude to let anything get the best of you, I know you’ll snap this thing to the ground like you’ve done to me too many times. I left my email, but don’t have your number in my new phone. Shoot me an email with your number so we can keep in touch better.
God Bless
Rob Waltko
I wish you the best in the future and stay strong.
Adam,
This is a tough thing for the wrestling world to learn, that someone with your talent and toughness has something as terrible as this happen to them. Remember, be positive, and be strong as you always have been. If anything, wrestling has prepared you to endure more pain than any normal person feels. Be strong, not just physically, but mentally, and you will get through this. My family and I are all praying for you. Don’t forget about those good old Shaler days, where it all started. With God on your side and your strength and motivation to beat this, let downs shouldn’t be an option. I wish the best Adam and I hope everything works out so I can see you wrestle again, your tough as nails man just remember that. I will be checking your updates and staying in touch big guy, stay strong.
Eric Fulmer
I have a son that was born with cancer,the doctor said there was nothing they could do they told me to make plans, I told them your not GOD and he has the last word not you he just turned 6 today [march 27] he is one of 4 brothers 2 of them wrestrle and he wants to start soon , so keep the faith and know that GOD is the healer, and by his stripes YOU are healed. Just believe, We will keep you in our prayers. the Mainiero Family FRON NJ.
Adam,
On behalf of myself and the Scorpions Wrestling Team and Staff, we would like to extend our support and prayers to you and your family…you CAN and WILL get through this by the grace of God…Have enough FAITH IN HIM and EVERYTHING is possible…Ironic how we always say that wrestling prepares young men and women for life in general and after reading your story I can see that you have learned these lessons well. You display the true markings of a wrestler, your will power and strength to survive will proclaim you victorious over this illness! Believe!
Adam,
God Bless you in your battle ahead. My wife, son and I will keep you in our prayers. Our family has dealt with cancer over the last 4 yrs and I can’t think of another type of person that could handle the battle you are facing better than a gutsy wrestler like yourself. You will have ups and downs but sharing through this blog I think will be a huge blessing. The Hawkeye wrestling family is behind you and will rejoice in your upcomming victory!!! God Bless!!!
Adam,
good luck to you in your battle ahead if anyone can over come something it a wrestler. god bless!!
God will always be with ya Adam…U are a true inspiration to me.
Adam,
We at Bones Wrestling Club wish you a speedy recovery and know that you will overcome and persevere and be back on the mat in no time. Take Care and God Bless.
Adam & Family,
Thanks for sharing this and giving us a chance to to pray for you. These prayers will bring God glory, and you and your family blessings. Perfection and not correction will be the end result! (God Bless you and your love ones)
Adam,
The Epps Family of Rutgers Prep prays for your speedy recovery and for your family.
Adam,
Our prayers are with you!
Adam
I know that it has been a few years since we have spent time together.
After you went to Blair it was like your family and I had lost touch!
Even though we have not had a continued communicative relationship like I would have hoped I have thought of you and your family often.
Your family was always very nice to me and your father was a good friend!!
Though times might seem difficult now “God does not hand us anything that we can not overcome”. And, without any doubt I know personally how strong and focused you are to overcome any illness or obstacle.
You and your family are in my prayers! And, please don’t hesitate to contact me if you or your family need anything. Also, give your mom and dad my best!!
J-Rob
Dear Adam and Fry family,
I just wanted to let you and your family know that you are in my prayers and if anyone can overcome this it is Adam. You are an amazing person with a strong will and even stronger heart.
Your biggest fan,
Wesley
Dear Adam and Family,
I have two boys whom are both dedicated wrestlers and I can only say that you know how tight the wrestling community is and you have an extended family here praying for you. You are a wrestler you can beat this!!!
God Bless you and your family
In our thoughts
The Patane Family
Adam.
I do not know you but we are praying for you as you go to the mat against this. I have two sons both wrestle and know that if anything can prepare you for this, wrestling has prepared you well for the fight ahead as you beat this!
God bless you and your family – the Stapleton family
Abdjun,
I am happy to see your friends and supporters finally being obvious to you. You have so many good friends and so many people think the world of you. Me and my family have always been in your corner whether on the mat or not, I hope you know you can depend on us for anything. Seems like much of what can be said about condition has been said.
So I will offer this:
“There is always another plate at our table. You are as you have always been welcome like a son.”
All of us, to all of you, God Bless & see you soon.
Adam, we are all thinking about you and we will pray for you everyday. You have all the tools to beat this thing. You have been fighting almost all your life as a wrestler, and a great one, I might add. You know what it is to overcome adversity in the wrestling world and now you just have to direct that power, drive, competitiveness and strength to win another match. Stay positive and keep fighting, man. Our thoughts are with you. Sincerely, The Hammond Family
Adam,
You have what it takes to beat this, Stay Strong!! Stay Positive!!
Just want to let you know we’re thinking of you and praying for your speedy recovery. Hopefully it will be no time before you and Coop can visit us again in the barn
See you on the Mat.
Elite Wrestling NJ
Adam, I will be praying for you. God knows what he is doing. Without the wreck you wouldn’t have found the cancer for a while I am sure. I hope to find out about you wrestling in the NCAAs in the next few years. God Bless, Coach Pewthers Liberal High School Liberal KS former OSU wrestler
adam this is max from the bestonmat website. ive been a fan of yours both at blair and cornell. after reading your blog im an even bigger fan. you have the perfect attitude to win this battle and return to the mats. my wife and i send our love, support and prayers to you! be strong champ!!!! max : )
Adam,
Thank you for you blog.
Life and Wrestling go hand in hand. Look at this is just another challange to overcome. You are a wrestler, you have the mind of a wrestler, you will overcome this!!!
God Bless, we have you in our prayers.
Coach Smith
Adam, I have watched you ever since Andrew has wrestled against you once at the beast and then in Fargo. Just wanted to say that you are in our prayers and hope you can return to mat as soon as it is possible. You always have the heart of a lion to battle all of lifes challenges. I hope you will look at this as a challenge that God has set before you and will attack as you have your entire wrestling career. God Bless. Jim Hochstrasser
Adam, I don’t know you, but from what I have seen of you as a wrestler, you have the strength to fight through whatever battles life brings your way. I will keep you in my prayers. I’m looking forward to seeing you display that fight on the mat in the future as well.
God Bless!
Darren Schortgen
Adam you will be in the thoughts and prayers on the Georgia wrestling community.
i was 36 when i found out i had it im 50 now dont ever give up and everyday is the best day a prayerand a wish are from me and ben
good luck youngman
You are a champion on and off the mats. Special prayers are being said for you. All the best during your treatment and recovery. Stay strong.
Adam,
I met you at the Beast a couple years ago and have allways been a fan of yours. My grandfather had at least 4 0r 5 different types of cancer and beat them all without kemo, maybe it was the spuds he was from Ireland and pased away at 93 yrs old. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Get well and I look forward to seeing you on the mat again.
Adam,
Like so many I don’t know you personally but have enjoyed watching you wrestle over the years with my boys. Our family will pray for you, we will pray that God will heal you, and that the Doctors will have the wisdom needed to deal with your illness. We will also pray that you and your family will remain strong as you grapple with one of life’s most difficult adversaries. Reading your log it shows your instincts as a wrestler have already kicked in and are testament to your character and a humble inspiration to us all. Keep the faith, continue the fight, and God Bless you and your family. Phil 4:13.
The Nielsons
Adam,
I got your web address from Joey Ackermann’s page. Thanks for sharing your story. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Your positive attitude will help in your speedy recovery. God Bless you and your family. I will watch for your updates. Stay strong!!!
Adam,
We have followed your career every since you wrestled Joey at Senior Nationals. We all know that you are one tough SOB and we have no doubt that you will pull through this. We have a lot of respect for you as a person and a wrestler. You will be in our thoughts and prayers stay strong we are all here for you.
God Bless. The Shaver & Slaton family
I am so so sorry about your cancer. We will be praying for you and your family.
God Bless.
The Meyer Family
Adam,
Even though I am a Penn fan, I have enjoyed watching you compete. My best wishes for the battle ahead and I sincerely hope to see you back on the mats before too long.
Adam,
Your strength and courage is remarkable as you face this challenge. You will continually be in my families prayers until you win this battle.
Tom Bosso
Delawaree Wrestling Alliance
Who says McDonald’s is bad for you?
Keep that positive attitude and never stop fighting. You’ll be in my prayers.
keep that postive upbeat attitude kid, keep your head up (your better than plainedge). you had my back the day i met you and ill have yours now. much lovee and prayers, stay strong.
<3 erin
Hello Adam-
You don’t know me but I read about your story on my nephews blog (Joey Ackermann). He was a 16 year old wrestler that past away last October after being burned in a freak accident. I just wanted to let you know that I will be praying for you. I know how tough wrestlers are so I know that you will be fighting this with everything you have. Stay strong, keep those positive thoughts flowing – you can beat this.
Adam,
I hope you get well soon!! Sorry to hear about it but I will be praying for you and your family!! Take Care!! HOOAH!!
i saw this url on joeys blog and wanted to look at it. You are in my prayers and keep fighting this and stay strong, you can get through this. Just remember to stay strong.
My prayers are with you and your family. Get well cousin.
Adam,
I have never had the pleasure of meeting you, or seeing you wrestle but as an avid wrestling fan, former wrestler, and current high school coach I have heard quite a bit about you and have followed your accomplishments a bit as well. I wish you the best of luck in your fight, and I have no doubt you will give it your all. Also, I will be participating in the Relay for Life this year at the University of Delaware and will keep you in mind on the day of the event. The entire wrestling community is pulling for you and hopes you will defeat yet another opponent in your life.
Best Wishes,
Mark
My prayers are with you . God bless
Adam,
I am a huge wrestling fan and have followed your career since Blair. Hang in there and “Livestrong”…I look forward to seeing you on the top of the podium in Omaha…if not St Louis…still can’t believe the size of those guns for a 141 pounder!
God Bless!
Adam,
I just heard of your most recent hurdle in life and like all others that you have sailed over in life to this point, I am positive with prayer and strength you will overcome this latest obstacle. You and your family will be in my family’s prayers.
Stay Strong,
Your cousin Jason
Adam,
Fight as you have your whole life, with God and prayers. You will be victorious.
The Kush Family,
Cobra Wrestling
Adam,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you here in Maryland. Stay tough.
Steve Hayleck
Adam,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Brandon Slay once shared this with me. ” I command you….be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged, for the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.” Joshua 1:9
Here’s another: Luke 1:37, look it up! I guess it’s true, wrestling does prepare us for the rest of life: One match at a time. Best wishes.
My prayers are with you, stay strong and push through. Best wishes.
Adam,
We remember your first years at Blair with your rolling bookbag. Also, your first win at Blair….no prancing allowed!! Although you most likely don’t know who we are, we’ve been Blair Wrestling parents/fans for a long time. Ask Coach Coop. His mom did lots of laundry here.
We are so sorry for what you are going through. You are a strong and focused person and we know that you will fight this and win. Treatments for cancer are very successful. There are so many survivor stories. We know you will be one of those survivor stories.
Bob and Donna C.
Blair Parents of:
John (2001)
Jess (2004)
Hi, Adam, I’m Chris Q’s mom. Just want you to know we all praying for you and sending out our love and strength – Joanne
Adam-
Stay strong. You are in our prayers here in the Boro.
-Coach Flynn
“When you think about it, what other choice is there but to hope? We have two options, medically and emotionally: Give up or fight like hell.”
- Lance Armstrong
Adam,
Knowing you for a relatively short amount of time, I’ve found a friend who I’ve confided in, trusted, and appreciated since day 1. Your character is defined by a unique honesty and strong heart. You are destined to do great things. In perspective, this path is simply a course that has been sent to you on your way to achieving your ultimate successes and helping you to expand and grow. Without hesitation, your option is aimed at a future of inspired ambition and achieved success.
In thoughts and prayers,
Your friend,
Reynolds
Hi, Adam
Of all things, I was just looking at the picture of you, Garrett and Will at our cabin in June of 2001. Remember the “Ye old shed house” I knew you would, and I also know your laughing right now. Well thank God for the good times and memories.
Because with the call from your Mom, we know how fast life changes. But Adam, we are here always for you, and your family. God Bless and we’ll be up. How about Chinese?
Love & Prayers,
The Durstine’s
“Be strong and of a good courage, fear not, nor be afraid…for the Lord thy God, he it is that doth go with thee; he will not fail thee, nor forsake thee.”
Your in our prayers. Stay strong bud.
Hello Adam,
I remember you from your elementary wrestling days. My son wrestled for Seneca Valley and the Angry Fish Club. I remember that even than you were one of the most intense wrestlers at a young age. As a Father I was kind of glad that my son did not have to ever wrestle you. He does recall some workouts with you at the Angry Fish. I have been following your web site since your accident. I just wanted to let you know that you are a great inspiration to me personally. I will pray for you each and every day and I will keep a eye on your progress. There is a reason that God chose you to fight this battle. There is no doubt in my mind that you will beat this illness. You have blessed all of us may God bless you.
Adam,
Good luck with your treatment. I’ll be praying for you.
Adam,
Good luck & there is no doubt you will beat this thing, your one of the toughest Dudes I have ever met. I Pray every day for you & your Family & will continue to do so until you beat this Animal & you will, Your so lucky to have so many Great people around you like your Family & Friends.
Glenn Sr.
Adam,
I praise your curage and know that you will fight this terrible disease each and every day as if you were training for a big match. You are a very strong young man in body and mind. The prayers of my family are with you, take care and may god bless you.
Adam,
All of us at the Daper Dan Wrestling Classic are thinking of you and have you in our daily prayers. Keep fighting champ.
Adam,
I read about you on Joey Ackermann’s website – he fought long and hard, and you can too! We all have our own battles and it is up to each of us to conquer them. I’m a cancer survivor – 5 years now – and its all by the grace of God. Trust in Him, pray to Him, believe in Him. He will never let you down. You are in my prayers.
Adam,
Take good care.
Daniel
Hi Adam,
I had a chance to watch you and Cornell at the NCAAs. Coach Koll has done a great job and no doubt he’ll do a great job with your rehab.
Cancer is what you make of it. In the end, life is about living. You must trust that the sun is out, even when blocked by clouds. In short, keep the Faith, give back to others and keep working your dreams.
Wrestling was my way out of worry. The sport teaches what you are capable of. Faith does the rest. For me, it has been 22 years + and I still grapple.
I look forward to watching the rest of your career.
My Best,
Jeff
Hey Adam, I’m an old wrestler from Penn 1947-51 and believe it’s STILL the best sport to build character and self-conficence. I had great health until I was 76 and then learned I had a blood cancer, same as what killed Sam Walmart. Modern medicine has’nt found a cure for what I’ve got, but they now know how to control it. I’m on the treatment, but understand I will never be in remission. I have to accept that. At 80, I’m still going strong and feel I have a lot of living to do. I’m sure you do too, so GOOD LUCK. HAVE FAITH.
Adam,sorry to hear about your illness, but as a wrestler nd the mind set youll have you will make it through this, God Bless
adam, our family will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers..you are tough kid with a strong faith…draw on those in the tough times ahead. lean on the people who love you and take some solice in the fact that you have touched so many lives. best of luck with all of this.
Adam,
You and your family will be in our prayers.Stay strong,don’t ever give up.You will beat
this battle like you have beaten most of the people you have wrestled.
God bless,
The Penargyl wrestling family
Hey Adam,
Found your website from a post on the joey ackermann website.
just wanted to stop by to say youll be in my prayers.
you can beat this.
one thing joey thaught people is to never give up and fight up until the last second.
keep the faith and nothing is impossible.
God Bless you,
Allyson
Old Mill student.
Adam:
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and we appreciate the updates that you are posting. Your attitude is inspirational to many us and is a reminder how important it is to be grateful for the moment and to maintain a positive attitude during difficult times. You have thousands of people in the wrestling world who are pulling for you.
Godspeed,
Jim Makovsky
Head Wrestling Coach
Minnesota State University, Mankato
Adam,
we are huge fans of yours and the Cornell family. You are in our prayers.
Scot Weaver and the QP Wrestling Team
Adam,
Even though we weren’t at Blair at the same time, I still remember you for your strength and positiveness both on the mat and off. When my sister forwarded me your blog, I was struck by the news of your cancer.
I know that you have the strength and courage to get through this. Your posts have shown that keeping a positive attitude is helping you and I admire you for still finding ways to laugh. You are an inspiration to us all. As things get a bit tougher, keep your head up and keep looking for the humor in everything. You have people all over the world supporting you.
Meagan, Blair ’01
Keep your head up. We are all rooting for you. You are a great guy with a great sense of humor. Thanks for the clinic over the summer. WANTAGH HIGH SCHOOL. NASSAU COUNTY, NEW YORK
Hey Adam,
You probably don’t remember me, but i went to the camp at MacArthur High School that you worked at over last summer. You made those two weeks very enjoyable for me. You are one funny SOB. I’m really glad to have met you last summer. Anyway, i just wanted to let you know that cancer is a very tough thing to deal with, 7 people in my family have endured various types of it, yet on a happy note, 6 of them survived. I want you to know that you are in my prayers, i will pray for you daily, and with some good treatment, i hope that you beat this. You are a great guy, and i hope to see you out on the mat again when all is said and done, bye for now.
-Matt Baldwin
Hello Adam,
My name is James. I like to think of myself as a person of great faith. I have had many experiences over the pass 52 years. I find one thing to be totally reassuring and that is GOD is consistant. He is still a Healer and He is very much alive.
I quickly want to share a story about my first born. When my wife was about to deliver the doctor told me that I could not come in because he had to do a emergency C-Section. He said the placenta had torn away from the wall in the womb and blocked the birth cannel. He said if he punctured it my wife would die and my bady would drown in the blood. Adam I went to the fathers waiting room and I called on God in the name of Jesus. I believe that he heard me right then and there. I got up off my knees and started back down the hallway. The doctor was running toward me screaming and crying out this never happens. He almost he me in a panic, ” This Never Happens ” Finally he told me that everything just turned around and went back in place. Now thats the kind of God we serve. You could just receive the negative or faith and say God you are able to do exceedingly, abundantly, above all I ask or imagine. God can do it. So I join faith with you and your family and all who support you in your healing.
Let’s Pray -
Father God I call into full affect your Grace and Your Mercy. I exercise Superior Power and Dominion over the works of Satan. I decree that Sickness has no place in Adams body. I sent forth your word just as you did to heal all manner of sicknes and disease. I decree that Cancer has to go, leave Adams body now in Jesus name. In the name of Jesus I speak to Power, Principalities, Rulers of Darkness in this world and in Heavenly Places I tell you now you must leave Adam’s body alone for he is ther porperty of Almighty God. Adam is healed in the name of Jesus and by his word and by his stripes. God, In the name of Jesus touch Adam now. I bind sickness and disease and loose life, health and restoration in Adams body and Life now in Jesus name. I release faith in the name of Jesus and I rejoice at the testimony of victory in Jesus name . Amen.
Adam, you don’t know me but I have had the pleasure of getting to know you through your wrestling. I always enjoy watching your unrelenting tenacity and am sure that is the way you will approach this new challenge. As wrestlers and coaches, we know what what it takes to be number 1. Everyone works hard but most times it boils down to mental toughness. Your years of wrestling have prepared you well both physically and mentally to overtake this new challenge in your life. Stay focused and beat this thing. The wrestling community is with you.
God Bless
Dear Adam,
You don”t know us, but we learned of your illness thru our granddaughters who are both graduates of Blair. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. You are indeed an inspiration to us all. I am so glad you have a strong faith in our Lord. He will be there to love and comfort you and I am sure He is using Big Zeus to help you feel His presence. That is why Big Zeus is your constant companion! Between your positive attitude and strong faith you will beat this cancer thing, and you will continue to inspire other young people to overcome tremendous obstacles, such as the young men that return from Iraq, broken and full of dispair. I hope many of these young people will have the good fortune to read about your story, as it will fill them with hope, and a desire to never give up until the battle is won. You are truly a gift from God and you are a blessing to all of us. Stay strong and know you are in our prayers, and please,give Big Zeus a big hug for us.
Adam,
The Bacon Academy Wrestling Team of Colchester Connecticut just learned of your illness. You may not remember us but we attended Team Camp the summer after your freshman year. Please know that all of us here are pulling for you. Stay tough, stay focused and stay positive.
Hello Adam!~
We don’t know each other, but I wanted to share a little story. I’m having driveway issues with a neighbor and decided after one week of replacing t-stakes and asking for help from the Tompkins Sheriff (I’m told it’s a civil matter) that I would go and visit my zoning control officer of Groton. During my visit with him, we talked about a lot of things – including the fact that I make soaps and detergents – chemical free and sell them globally. This business started after my grandfather was diagnosed with lymph node cancer – I just wanted to make a difference for my own family and little by little it grew. That led to a conversation about you and what you have been through. Mr. Coats showed me your web site and told me that he is following your progress daily!! He goes to work and he checks on you first. My youngest daughter is deaf and goes to Ithaca High School. I was telling her of your strength and your battle – don’t be surprised to get a LOT of blogs from that way!! haha. Well, small world full of loving people and your are blessed to be surrounded by hope, prayers, and blessings. I will continue, as Mr. Coats does, to watch your progress and I wish you lots of love! Kindness to you and yours, Kimberli
You are in our thoughts. Focus and fight!
Adam,
Stay strong. “I can do anything through him who gives me strength” Phillipians 4:13
God Bless
This is unbelievable news to swallow.
But just like all these people said…”We aint got no choice but to get it on.”
All my love, respect, and support. I’m here if you need me. 917-420-0573. Open all hours.
Drew.
Adam,
Best wishes to you, I hope your treatment goes well. I’ve enclosed a article about a treatment I read about years ago, too long a story to go into here, but I found it interesting.
http://www.townsendletter.com/FebMar_2003/coleystoxins0203.htm
Dear Adam,
I have enjoyed watching you wrestle for a long time. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
A long the way wrestling taught me, “tough times don’t last but tough people do.”
Stay well,
Ted Witulski
Best to you on your recovery … we are keeping you in our thoughts.
Dan P – from Stafford, Virginia
Adam,
First and foremost, I hope everything is going as well as it could possibly go at this point. I was shocked when I first heard of the news that you were in a car accidents and stunned when I learned of your tumors. I just want to say that you are in my prayers…Now, Since I’ve coached you for a short time, while at Cornell, I know your going to be as stubborn and hard headed to cancer as you were to me (lol). I know that you faced difficult times while you were at college and I know that you are mentally and phyical tough enough to face this battle. All I could say is always remain the same positive, intelligent (as corky as you are) young man that I know you are. Like Koll says “It is what it is!” and you have to find a way! But again, stay positive and you’re in my prayers.
JaMarr Billman
Hi Adam,
Mamma McKnight and family has been keeping you & your family in our thoughts & prayers everyday. We have been keeping up with your progress on the internet. We know that you are a fighter & will beat this. Treatments for cancer gets better every day. I will be in remission coming up on 3 years. I always say God gives you what you can handle. You got the courage and strength. This is just another obstacle that you will overcome.
I think back when you and Mark were little and all the great times we had from KOA campground, MAWA’s, Angry Fish, and Fargo.
We will continue to keep you and your family in our thoughts & prayers. If you or your parents need anything just let us know.
Love and God Bless
McKnight’s & Big Mike
Adam,
Expect to Win!
The Schiedel’s
Adam,
I am not going to tell you I am sorry, because sorry is what you tell someone who hasnt won the fight, and I know that you will beat this and be back on the mat.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, and we hope you will continue to keep everyone informed of your prognosis.
Best,
The Carmenatty’s
Adam,
Ithaca High School Wrestling sends out it’s thoughts and prayers. Stay strong! People can say “it is what it is,” but we should also note, that you are what you are, and that is a fighter! From our families to yours, we wish you the best in this fight and during your recovery. God Bless, and never give up.
Ithaca High School Wrestling
Adam,
I hope knowing that the thoughts of so many in the wrestling community might pick you up in your struggle. Add the thoughts and prayers from all of us at Port Jervis wrestling. We are cheering you on as you “get after it”
Coach Kahmar
Dear Adam,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God Bless you and stay strong.
my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. I don’t know you personally but being a wrestler myself i know that it takes and i know you will pull through this. In the words of Rocky Balboa: Never Give up, and Never Stop Believing.” GOD BLESS YOU. STAY STRONG
Dear Adam,
Although I have never had the chance to meet you, I have wrestled your brother a few times, and have been following your wrestling career at Cornell. I was sorry to hear of your diagnosis, but know that God will be with you and keep you strong. My family and I will keep you and your family in our prayers.
God Bless,
Eric Filipowicz and Family
Adam,
I’m very sorry to hear about your cancer, but from watching and keeping track of your career, if you battle it as hard as you do any opponent, I know you can beat it. I have been keeping up with your web page and I finally decided to write you. It is amazing to see the support you get and I want you to know that we are all here for you. My wrestling team here in Houston has been praying for you as well as their families. Let us know when those shirts are coming out and we will make sure to stock up on them. I’m also going to be sending you some of our workout gear from our high school. I want you to know that even with us being so far away in Texas, that we are behind you 100% and that you will beat this.
Good luck and God Bless
Brad Ewing
Klein Oak High School Wrestling
Houston, Texas
Although i may not know u, from what i do know u r a fighter. As head captian of the J.F. Webb warrior wrestling team good luck, keep your head up, never give in, and remember ” ITS NOT THE SIZE OF THE DOG IN THE FIGHT ITS THE SIZE OF THE FIGHT IN THE DOG”
Bryan Bowen
Oxford, NC
Adam, I am a Cornell alumnus who never smoked or did any kind of drugs or had any other risk factors, just like you. I was diagnosed with lung cancer almost two years ago (almost 20% of the people who get lung cancer never smoked and have no known risk factors and many are athletes.) Lung cancer kills more people in this country than the next three types of cancer combined, usually within a year from diagnosis. It is always fatal so I am hoping that yours is not lung cancer but some other kind and that you have a shot at surviving and living a long and fruitful life. Fight hard and have faith and you will find the strength to deal with this. You have already inspired more people than you can know. I hope for the very best for you. RCB
Adam,
Don’t give up! Our prayers are with you down here in Greensboro.
the LaJeunesse family
Adam,
I agree with Coach Smith:
“You are a wrestler, you have the mind of a wrestler, you will overcome this”
Also, Trust in the Lord! My prayers are with you.
Coach Mike
Hey buddy, I know your a fighter. I’m keeping you and your family in my prayers.
Adam,
You will be in our thoughts and Prayers…we are all pulling for you!!
-The Becker’s
Adam,
I used to wrestle out here in California…have seen you wrestle before…you never give up!
You have an amazingly positive attitude for someone who has been dealt such a tough hand in life. This lets me know that you have a great chance at a recovery, and I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Keep Strong,
Alex Aguilar
Sacramento, CA
Adam,
I remember watching you wrestle at Greco/Freestyle Nationals in Fargo, ND– I was one of maybe two girls working security there. It’s hard to forget your name & face since I checked your I.D. and name about a hundred times! I’m thinking of you and praying for you always, and I really enjoy your daily updates on the website. I can’t wait to order a shirt!!
Keep up the good fight,
Marie Fiedler
Sauk Centre, MN/Fargo, ND
I am a HS wrestling coach from Oklahoma and I got to watch you wrestle at Sr. Nationals. You were a big stud then and are a bigger one now. Best of luck to you. Remember all things are possible.
You are in my prayers,
Ray Weis
Adam…What a privilege it is to have so many well-wishers, I have enjoyed watching and reading the results of your matches since you were in high school, what a fierce competitor you are and I hope that you approach this challenge like you have approched the mat with pure AGGRESION. Our thoughts and prayers from Oklahoma are with you in your continued fight. El Reno Wrestling
All the best Adam. Just read the Trib piece. I’ll be praying for you.
Regards
Tony Mowatt
new Market, Va.
Adam, your Dad’s cousin, Henry told Bob the news as soon as he heard about it. You have been in our thoughts and prayer. Bob found your article in the paper today, and as always, you continue to inspire us. Glad to see you have faith in our Lord, and are leaning on him. Keep up the same spirit that has been your benchmark for years. We have always enjoyed watching you as a pee wee, and following your career either in the papers or through Henry. You are an inspiration, and you definitely are on your way to your purpose driven life. Take care. Now that we know about your blog, we will be reading it daily. Thoughts to your parents as well.
Adam I recently started a new job – Roto – Rooter in Murrysville- Pittsburgh Branch, I being a fellow wrestler- now coach for my 2 nephews Italo -Sal Merante in Peters Twp work with your father, and was in a training class we talked wrestling before you accident and now i am aware of the situation that has occured – stay mentally strong and never give up you will get through this no doubt -
God Bless our prayers are with u -
Roto Rooter Pittsburgh Branch
Wow dude, you really are the most positive, up to the challenge, motivated, strongest person i have ever met. I don’t think i would have half the strength and mental toughness to beat the cancer that you contain. Good thing you were mentally prepared for this by wrestling for all those years. Good luck with this and God be with you. You’re gonna beat it for sure. I am purchasing a shirt as well.
Adam,
If this great sport of wrestling has taught us anything it is that you can truly tackle anything as long as you believe in yourself and fully put your mind to the task at hand. As your accomplishments and hard work have illustrated to us all, you have a tremendous work ethic that the common man could only dream of having. Adam, you are one of the most fully motivated people out there and this is just another obstacle in the course of life. You will get through it. You are as strong as anyone and deep down you can fight this and you are going to! If anyone can overcome this it is you! Believe that! Take care Adam and I wish you the best in in this endeavor and in your future!
Best Wishes,
Jaret Grossman
Adam,
As someone who knows this situation all to well, my family too was faced with this. You see my brother Johnny Martin was a great wrestler first at OSU then at Clarion. He also was in the fight of his life but in the end fell short, but I can tell you this the mental toughness that he had fighting this was a direct result of wrestling. When the doctors told us to prepare for the worst Johnny dug even deeper to fight a fight that lasted almost 6 years. I know you too can dig deep and beat this. Never give up and remember your a wrestler for life God Bless you and your family.
Joey Martin
Hey Adam,
Graduated Cornell in ’88. Wrestled for CU and Andy Noel 85-87. Just heard of your story from Coach Koll’s newsletter. When you AND your family are ready to celebrate your victory over Cancer I’ve got rooms waiting for you at my hotels in Miami Beach with our compliments… Check out http://www.morganshotelgroup.com and look up Delano and The Shore Club. FIGHT!
All the best from your Miami/Cornell Wrestling family,
Mark
Adam,
Get pissed. Get angry.
This is war, and this is the attitude you need to take into battle.
I know I don’t need to explain this to you. You are in my prayers and the prayers of my family. This will turn out for the best. I expect to be reading great things about you in the future, amongst them, a national wrestling championship.
Mike
Receipt ID: 0TU217285T304023E
Adam,
Just bought a T-shirt. Could you, please, send it to
Isaac Golubchin
175 W Saint James
Unit 609
San Jose, CA 95110
Thank you, and best wishes!!!
lg
Hi Adam!
I’m a “Cornell Mom” and I read Josh Perlin’s article about you in the Sun.
That auto accident saved your life! What a strange turn of events!
Even though, at this point, I ‘ve only read a small portion of your website, I can already see what an AMAZING boy you are!
You are smart, witty, strong, and gorgeous! Your Mom (and ALL of your family!) must be so proud!!
One round of treatments done already! YAY!! =)
Keep posting, and BE WELL!
Hugs,
Mrs S
Adam
Want you to know the entire Savino family is praying for you and know you will beat your cancer. God bless you and good luck.
i think you two people are the most classless people in the world. Disgusting that people would actually think that way let alone post it on this site. Adam I dont know you but I read every day and have since the beginning. You bring great inspiration to many and letting people know every thing bout you and your life lets people realize there are worse things out there then a rainy day or something. Keep fighting and god bless.
Hi Adam—You don’t know me, but you do know some of my family, Jeremy Butler, Mason and Tucker Butler and my daughter Kristen. They told me about your predicament, and I just wanted to write and say that we are all thinking of you and praying for your recovery. Jeremy is waiting for the day when you can come back here to Cornell and to Lansing and hang out and do some fishing and hunting. Get better, be well, be strong.
Our thoughts are with you!
Adam, I just heard the news and wanted to let you know that we will be praying for you. I know that means something to you as you have always been outspoken and unashamed about your faith. Thanks you for your strength and your testimony to God’s loving care for you. May He hold you close as you keep you eyes on Him.
Dude….
Friday night….loco Cabana bar…party like rock stars…
Lance Romance is breaking out the belly rolls…the ladies love it…
Eric from the gym
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Adam,
You are an inspiration man! Best wishes, and we will be praying for you here in TN! Go Cornell, Go Jordan Leen!
hey adam its been a long time i used to wrestle with you way back, but ill be prayin for you, i couldnt imagine how ya feelin and yes you r one tough sob, hope everythings goin alright
jojo
From one wrestling mom to another, I hope Mrs. Frey is having a great Mother’s Day. I can’t imagine how hard this is for you, but I am sure you know what a special son you have in your life. I check Adam’s site daily and he is a continuous source of inspiration. You and your family are in my prayers.
Adam – Just read your story in the Ithaca Times – thought it was strange I hadn’t seen you around CU. Just wanted to let you know that you and your family are in our prayers. You have always been a fighter and never been a quitter. Keep that awesome smile and your faith in GOD !! Candi Griffin (Cornell Ticket Usher)
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Dear Adam,
I have had you blog passed on to me from a fellow wrestler that had the honour to meet you this past year.
Although we have never met, I believe that wrestlers are like a “brotherhood” and we all need to stick together through good times and bad.
I am from the far north, Canada! I was a wrestler and now work in administration with wrestling in Canada.
I give you my best wishes for recovery and battling this opponent and hope for a speedy recovery.
Take care and I will be watching you progress.
Your now Canadian Friend,
Clint
Hey Adam. I just wanted to say that I am sorry to hear about your cancer. I wouldnt know what to think if that happend to me. But you could have no greater ally than Jesus Christ. I will be praying for you my friend. God bless you!
Adam,
Im a soldier in Iraq, a former HS and JUCO wrestler, and a former coach (with aspirations to coach again someday). I like to think I follow wrestling fairly closely, and of course, being the wrestling junkie I am, I have heard of you before all of this. I did not know you had become sick. Being a father to 3 girls who own my heart, and having had a child who was recently hospitalized for a short time (she is ok, but she scared us), I can imagine what is going through your parents minds. Reading your posts, I am amazed at how upbeat you remain, and you positive outlook on all of this is inspiring and mesmerizing. I truly admire your determination and your mindset. My wife recently had a procedure, and, as with you, I admire her will and strength. She thinks I am the strong one, for coming here, and doing what I do; I remind her that she is the one maintaining the homefront, raising three children, taking care of so much while I am gone and standing by me through all of this.
I am glad there are people like you in this world, who show us that no matter how hard life hits you, there is no reason to give up, no reason why you cant go on, and nothing that can hold you from reaching your dreams.
Feel free to write me back. I do stay busy (I am the Battalion Supply Officer, and everyone wants something, all the time), but I always make time to answer emails and call home.
V/R (very respectfully)
Joshua M. Richey
CPT, LG
Adam, I am praying for you and wish you a speedy recovery.
Please ignore the above crude replies, remember those who loath others, loath themselves as well.
I just purchased T shirts for my daughters to wear. When they ask me who you are, I will tell them, A hero and a role model. Stay strong
Adam,
The world is full of ignorant people….. I don’t know why theses marginal people have to leave their filthy trash words on your beautiful blog?
Pay them no attention, obviously they are limited on their communication skills…
Keep up the faith and the positive inspiration that you have on others.
We are all praying for your healing.
Nurse Betty
Get well soon bro. Keeping you in my prayers.
Hey man,
I’ll pray for ya, I remember in high school I would hear your name in usa wrestling magazine when I should have been studyin. Hope the best for ya.
-josh
Adam, it is amazing to see the best of humanity and worst of humanity all in the same blog. You and Joshua Richey spend everyday fighting for your lives and at the same time serve as an inspiration for all of us. Then there are others who have nothing better to do with their time than attack others with their first grade attempts at humor. I will not attack them in return because they will only get my pity. I bet their parents would be appalled to see how they are representing themsleves and their families. How sad….. You and your family can stand proud each day of the person that you are. God bless.
Ew. You people are absolutely disgusting heartless immature little children, grow up. Anyone who wishes death apon someone has a lot of learning left to do and really should not even be given internet rights. This isn’t a video game this is an actual life. So please take your disturbing comments else where.
-Adam you know your way better than that.
I am a 2 time cancer survivor and I want you to know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish you a full and speedy recovery! God bless!
Adam Frey,
My name is L.j and im from Michigan. im attending to University of Wyoming to wrestle in fall this year on scholarship. im ranked 13th in whole nation. few years back i would hear your name in usa wrestling magizine and i watched you wrestled couple times at ncaa championship.
But i just want to say i hope you recover 100%. and i will be praying for you.
Dont listen to losers with bad comments. they are just jelous because they know they will never get the best support like you have right now.
Best of Luck with your recovery.
L.j
Hi Kevin,
I am a breast cancer survivor originally from Rochester NY and my son wrestled for Webster Schools for many years. I would watch all the other boys wrestle but when it came time for my son to wrestle I would be so nervous and I could not watch at times.
But like you, wrestling was his passion – it made him so happy.
I just wanted to say that you can do anything you put your mind to. You can “tap out” the cancer. On the mat, you find strength – use your strength and you will raise your hand in victory.
Adam just wanted to let you know we are praying for you and family God bless
Adam-
Best of luck beating this thing. With your attitude and motivation, it shouldn’t be a problem. From everyone in Tiger Country, good luck and our prayers are with you. We can’t wait to see you on the mat again (just take it easy on us).
Brian Smith
Head Wrestling Coach
University of Missouri
Don’t worry about people putting negative stuff out on the web. That is the only reason I found out about your site. We will be praying for you. Stay strong. Stay positive.
Hi, I dont know who any of you are, but obviously you’re not important.
Get over yourselves and find something else to do with your pathetic lives.
This site is for people who actually care and support him. Get the hell off it.
THANKS.
Adam, I am SO sorry you have to put up with sick and twisted people like this. THANK YOU for calling me back today, and I’m sorry I over reacted to someone’s ridiculously sick attempt at humor. I can honestly say that you are my hero… I don’t think I could handle the things that are being thrown at you the way you have. You are an inspiration to me and many others. Keep your head up Adam, those sick people will have to answer to our Lord one day… I LOVE YOU BUDDY!!! Hope the move with G went well. I’ll call you in a few days to check up. =)
Love
Jen
Whats up there brother,
You dont know me from adam hahaha….in all seriousness, I just came across your website and read about your story. I am a Jersey police officer and I wrestled in high school and college in the 90′s and know the mental toughness that it takes. If anyone can make it through this, its someone like YOU. I just wanted to drop a line and let you know you are in my prayers, and I will be sure to pass it on to the church and they will be praying too. God bless ya Adam, you fight like hell.
Adam:
I read your story and am sending positive thoughts and prayers. As someone with cancer, I know how hard it is to deal with. It sounds like you’re a fighter though and having a good attitude will get you through this.
Good luck,
Cindi
Wonderful news, Adam! You have now joined me and many others as a member of the “Cancer Survivor Club”. Your journey has been an inspiration to many, and it is heartwarming that you give God his due praise. May God continue to bless you.
Hey Adam,
You dont know me but i wanted to let you know that we the coaching staff and wrestlers at Cumberland Regional are praying for you and your family. Keep your head up young man and stay strong.
Coach Carmine Davis
Great news!!! We will continue to pray for you here in Brooklyn. I am happy for you, but not suprised… You are a Wrestler! Can’t wait till the shirt comes in the mail. Stay well, – John Zarcone
I read about what had happened in an article that my father showed me. You probably don’t remember me, but I attended the Cornell wrestling camp, I believe in 05 or 06. I remember liking you the most out of any of the counselors because I love your attitude toward wrestling and just life in general. Cancer is obviously no joke but you aren’t either. Stay strong and always have faith. I hope to see you on the mat soon, Ill be at University at Buffalo @ 157 Ibs.
Take care,
John-Martin
Adam,
I was doing a google search to try and find something inspirational that would get me out of the funk I was in today. Somehow your website came up and I was immediately drawn to it because my oldest son, Cameron, is a wrestler. Reading your story has really touched a part of me that, once again, made me realize… no matter what our own story is there is always someone out there who is going through something tougher than we are. Thanks for sharing your story so candidly, honestly, and bravely. I can’t wait to share your site with my son and his team. Please know that we will all be praying for you and checking back in often to follow your progress. God’s speed to you and may He grant peace and comfort to you and yours.
In Him,
Darrell Dishner
We will be praying for you down at St. Peter’s Prep. May God bless you.
I heard your story from coach Koll at the wrestling summer camp this past week. I have had cancer affect many people in my family from grandparents, to aunts and uncles, and also my own mother who is a colon cancer survivor of one year. I myself am a highschool wrestler and can not imagine what you and your loved ones are going through. I pray that one day you will step back on to a mat for Cornell wrestling.
God Bless You.
I wanna show you something,
Adam
Stay strong and continue to be positive. Our prayers are with you. You are a wrestler who can overcome any obstacle.
God Bless You.
The Kirchner Family
Dear Adam,
You are in our prayers.Stay strong. God will be with you and help you beat this. I was at the fundraiser tonight and listened to you tell your story. Your a very strong person and you inspired me and everyone else who heard you speak. I hope you beat this.
Mike Tully
Dear Adam,
I am sorry to hear you have cancer. That really sucks. I will pray for you. I am a 29 year old black male currently with drug problems. I hope you get better through Jesus Christ. I will have you in my prayers.
Adam,
Stay tough i know you can fight through this…Don’t worry, our thoughts and prayers from Pittsburgh are with you..
With Much Love and Support,
Anthony DePellegrini
Hi Adam,
My name is Laurie Kocan. Your Mom cleans for me. This is the first time I checked out your blog. Its great! I have been trying to reach your Mom. I have been so worried you and your Mom since I have not heard from her. I guess she is up there with you? You have been on my mind. I am glad you are hanging in there!
Take care!
Laurie
God made all things, including cancer. and he is on your side, always.
Adam, It was a pleasure watching you wrestle over the years and it will be a pleasure praying for you. God bless!!!!
Hello,
I am a high schol wrestler for Overhills High School in North Carolina. Your story is amazing and I to see you again on the mat soon! Well I will be praying for you.
God Bless you,
Kenneth Lemons
Adam–
I had the pleasure of meeting your father Jerry, and he shared your story with me. At that time, I offered my prayers, and, true to my word, you have been in my prayers. Tell your Pops his Irish “cousin” Mikey says hello.
Be well, in His Love, and may His blessings bring you happiness.
Mike Dolan
Hey Adam–I know we haven’t kept in touch since high school, but I want you to know how much of an inspiration you are to me. Keep fighting, and I know you will overcome this. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
-Grace D.
Dear Adam Frey,
I have been informing myself about the situation you have been in lately and I wish you the best of luck to fight through this. Your attitude and persistence has given me a different view in life. I am just a freshman in high school, but knowing about your story strives me to succeed even more in my wrestling carrier and in my studies. God bless your soul.
Sincerely,
Socrates Atmatzidis
“As you consistently do your best
the worst will never happen.”
– B. C. Forbes
I wish you well Adam Frey. Your family should be very proud of the man you have become.
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Hi Adam,
Sarah Miller of the MillerStrong foundation told us about your battle during a wrestling tournament in Maryland yesterday. She told our son, a 171-lb DeMatha wrestler who is very spiritual to keep you in his prayers. We are praying for your recovery and wanted you to know that Danny told Sarah that he was thinking of you and you brought him inspiration for him to beat the 3rd seeded wrestler (Danny is the 6th seed) 9 – 2 to get into the finals….just want you to know how your strength and faith is affecting others!!
Be strong and know we are all connected in this life!
Prayers and Blessings,
Lisa & John Peacock and Family
Silver Spring, MD
Adam,
I am so devastated to here your about your life.I want to know what kind of cancer you have.
God bless you,
Jason Palatsky
My gym teacher told me about you, today. He said his son knows you, and that I should read your site. And I’m really glad I did.
Stay strong.
<3Trisha.
Hey Adam,
Who am I to tell you to keep your chin up and keep fighting when I haven’t a clue as to what you are going through, but I want you to know that I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers….Match is heading to OT buddy, dig deep and get that victory…..
T.Mast
Adam,
When you wrestle and your down do you give up? no god is on your side just keep fighting and don’t think about stopping. this fight isn’t over my friend, and you will be in my prayers and will continue to watch you spank grown in men in the worlds oldest and toughest sport. keep on praying my man, GODS GOT YA BACK!
-Mike Spencer
-Liberty
Hi Adam,
Just know that God will take care of you, no matter what. Keep up the fight!!
Hi Adam,
As the mother of two boys who wrestled in high school, your story caught my eye. As well, we lived in Ithaca for 4 years, while their dad attended Cornell, in fact one of the boys was born there. I can probably relate to what your parents are going through more, and my thoughts go out to them.
I just wanted to send you my best wishes and positive thoughts for recovery. As a nurse I can tell you, miracles in medicine do happen, and that will be my hope for you.
Corinne
Hi Adam,
My son wrestled in middle school. Thankfully he moved on to football. Because I’m sure that I would have had trouble with appropriate restraint. It was the hardest thing to watch as a parent, I thought. But, I’m sure it pales to what your facing now. Be fierce. Be courageous. You are millions of people strong!
Happy Memorial Day,
a Central New Yorker
I am reading this and thinking back a few years ago when my husband went through head and neck cancer and the battle we endured through chemo and radiation together. I think the primary thing that brought him through was his discipline and strength of being a wrestler and football player throughout his life and being strong physically. It gave him the determination to fight the battle and win. WE HAVE BEEN CANCER FREE going on 3 years this summer. It is an ugly disease!!!! Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. As I tell everyone it changes your life and you appreciate people a lot more. Some disappoint you and others rise to the occasion. Take each day and enjoy them!!!!! Your life changes in an instant!
Adam,
as you know, having faith in god is enough to get you through everything… god had you apart of the reck for a reason…not to kill you but to make you aware of what was coming. the dr. was right. you were a lucky SOB but god knew you werent going to die…you would have never know you had cancer because you were so healthy and never needed CT/MRI so it took you being in the accident so he could alert you early at 21 so you can start treatment and be cured. You WILL be cancer free and we will be praying for you. God bless!!!!!!
with love
aimee deanda
Stay positive and God bless you, I hope you can wrestle again very soon.
Adam, no one is tougher than a wrestler. You will beat this. Visualize success. I’ll be praying for you, kid!
It must have been the best car crash of your life. I’m hoping you pull through Adam.
Adam: Get a copy of Peter Kreeft’s “Making Sense Out of Suffering”…You will be happy you did. I promise.
It appears that you are a Christian. Unlike “When Bad Things Happen to Good People” written by a Jewish Rabbi…a very good man who lost his own son, but a man who does not acknowledge the Christian perspective as the answer.
Kreeft is a known entity/author in the Christian world. His book is well written and clear.
God Bless You!
Adam. I found your site through a Twitter post. You know how those are–you can’t visit every single link you see, but I was drawn to click on this one.
Your story and your posts are amazing. I see the fighter in you, and I will pray that in the toughest moments you won’t give up. I can tell you know this–you don’t walk alone . . . you don’t fight alone.
God bless!
Hi Adam!
I have read about your story and am anxious to hear about your Sports Illustrated experience. I was glad tonight to see you had good scores after your recent doctor appointment. I always check your updates and pray for good news in your “fight the fight”. I wish you much fun with SI and look forward to you taking down the big “C” as I am hopeful you will.
Much love, hope, and prayers,
Christy
Adam, You most likely do not remember or even know that i was once a PA team mate of yours. My name is Dan Estricher. I wrestled on the PA Cadet Team to Fargo for two years at 215, back when you were a junior and senior in high school. I have recently heard about your story with your battle with cancer which coach Gino Frank told me about a couple months ago. I just wanted to say that I was in disbelief when i heard the news. However, as horrible as it had sounded i grimaced for only a moment. I was thinking to myself and then said Adam Frey IS on tough SOB! This is just another test to prove how tough he is. I believe in your ability to fight and wish you the best. I pray for you and my family prays for you.
Dan
Adam,
Stay strong stud my dad is fighting the same battle as you. You’re in my thoughts and prayers. My brother and I are pulling for you over here in Iowa and people care about you all over the nation. I wish you nothing but the best! Stay positive!
Travis Paulson
Adam,
Great to meet you this year at the CMU/Pitt meet. I’m so impressed with your positive attitude. You are an inspiration to so many people. Keep looking to the Lord, he’s with you every step of the way! You will continue to be in my prayers!
Jenn Chapman
Adam – Great news about the shrinkage in your tumors. Your determination and positive attitude are beating this thing! You are truely an inspiration to my family and I here in Iowa!
Take care and keep fighting!
Eric
Adam,
It is a tough battle but keep fighting! If you’re wondering who I am, I go by Mogi and I wrestled at St. Benedict’s Prep and Team NJ.
Wrestling team at Saint John’s University in Minnesota knows you and will be thinking of you!
-Mogi
May the infinite wisdom bless you! I see you as perfectly whole and healthy! GD bless!
Adam it’s people like you that show tremendous courage, heart and desire in the face of life’s biggest challenges that reinforces my belief that wrestling is far more than a sport. It is a lifestyle. Your story is inspiring, your passion is amazing. Keep working, fighting and believing like only a wrestler can.
Hey Adam. We wrestled way back in probably 1st or 2nd grade, when you were at Shaler and I was at NA. I came across your website and just wanted to let you know how much all of the wrestling fans from this area always respected you and kept up on your career after you left for Blair. My thoughts and prayers along with those of all your fans from NA throughout the years will be with you while you fight this.
Derick Schmidt
you are in my prayers adam!!! all the way from hawkeye country in baghdad, iraq!!! i can’t tell you i have any idea how scary this must all be…….but you are a strong, brave man….don’t ever stop fighting.
Dear Adam,
My name is Alexander Debelov and we have wrestled at Prep Nationals a couple of years ago. I was truly inspired by your dedication and hard work then, but even more so now. I am not a wrestler anymore, but I am still a fighter in everything that I do. Your story will forever live in my heart and I will always remember you as my Idol. You are by far the biggest inspiration that I had in my life! RIP.
Most Sincerely,
Alexander Debelov
Dear Adam, I heard about you just the day before yesterday from The Cornell Daily Sun and decided to google you. I heard this winter took a few precious lives from the campus and had been feeling sad and wondering who they were and why it happened at such an early age.
My tears are pouring down as I am writing this letter to you. I know you can’t read it now, but somehow maybe, just maybe, you can feel it from above. What a battle you fought! What a legacy you left! What a tough Cornellian you are! What a wonderful son you are! What a shining star you are to all of us!
These past few days, as I walked on the streets of campus, I thought about you, your mother, your brother and also your father. They must still be in mourning and missing you terribly. Last night I picked up my daughter from her practice in Barton Hall, I took a good look at all the buildings nearby. I guessed that part of Cornell campus must have been like your old home turf. I didn’t know you at all, but somehow, I still feel very fortunate that I got to know you through your blogs and that you and I shared this beautiful campus. Actually, we all feel fortunate that you came to live in this world at all. You must be an angel sent by God to this world with a mission to urge people on, to touch our heart and to help us become better. But how I wish you didn’t have to go through that much pain and discomfort!
Dear Adam, I am going to sign off now. It must feel weird to get a letter from a total stranger in this physical world. But, if for some incomprehensible reason, you can read it or feel it, please rest in peace and please watch over your mother, your brother and all the ones you love. The world on this side has no shortage of battles to fight. Keep them safe and strong.
Looking up to you, your admirer
God bless you Adam, I can only hope wherever you are that your spirit is happy. I don’t know how you handled this but you did it like a man, I can only hope when my time comes, I act the same way. You are an inspiration. Much love to you and your family.
Hi Adam,,
I’m from the Netherlands.
I hope you will get through this!
I also hope that you’ll keep fighting!
I wish you the best of luck,,
Danielle